Re: adios, pancho

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Posted by Julia from ( on Thursday, June 27, 2002 at 12:24PM :

In Reply to: adios, pancho posted by Lilly from ? ( on Thursday, June 27, 2002 at 11:17AM :

: I'm not coming back. You can say whatever you want about me - I never cared that much, to begin with, or I'd have stopped posting way before this. What I have seen, though, & was determined to test in & extract from you if it was there, was exactly how much you fluff up yourself & your opinions, attempting to trivialize anyone who doesn't agree with you. I test people - I've always done this because I've known from the beginning of my childhood that other people can be harmful toward others, even when they are not conscious of it. & what I've noticed is this: you've become your own intolerant "expert." I've learned what I wanted to, & there's nothing [more] about you that I'd care to know, even as an acquaintance. Good luck in your future & try not to be so petty, sometimes - it fogs up your perception of what others may attempt to say to you as constructive criticism.

>>>girl...i've said that before and I come back :) you should too. you won't get much constructive dialogue out of fred - he said a long time ago his job is not to engage in constructive dialogue. instead he does what he does to raise consciousness on different issues - to prick people, to prod them to look at things differently.

he gets people pricked - i'll admit - but not much more. it's ok, it's not his job, he doesn't want to be an educator of sorts. maybe you and i and others who are more inclined to discuss and exchange constructive criticism can do that instead of him.

-- Julia
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