Posted by Sadie from ? (126.96.36.199) on Monday, June 16, 2003 at 4:32PM :
In Reply to: Re: well... posted by The Cheeta Of Them All from customer-148-233-78-77.uninet.net.mx (188.8.131.52) on Monday, June 16, 2003 at 2:26PM :
: JESUS!!! You baking a cake or looking for love?
xxx Tell us about your experiences with relationships. How many of them worked with knowledge of some sort of abstract, idealized version of "love"? & how many of them worked THROUGH love, after a lot of maintenance? The obvious & subtle mainenance, I mean - learning to work *with* each other & communicate effectively & attempting to learn about that person. One of the worst things in the world is to go into the relationship blind to oneself (as you said) & to the other person WITHOUT the desire to learn about the other person. I'm only saying "the other person" because I don't want to name names.
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