Re: & finally

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Posted by International Hot Foot from ? ( on Friday, May 17, 2002 at 4:59PM :

In Reply to: & finally posted by Lilly from ? ( on Friday, May 17, 2002 at 3:58PM :

: I stopped dating for a couple of years after the rape - & it took a lot of negotiating

+++I knew you were a sentimentalist at heart.

for my current boyfriend to get me to go out with him the 1st time.

+++Imagine what it took for him to go "in" with you the first time. Yuk!

I'm glad that I did, & still do, but it's been so difficult

+++Yeah...I can see how reticent you are to unravel this whole "painful" incident.

- I didn't want to trust him, or anyone outside of my family & my best friend since 3rd grade.

+++You mean your friend in the 3rd grade DIDN'T rape you? What was it, an off day for you? I can't imagine why you wouldn't trust anyone...I find you completely trustworthy...I'd believe any lie you told me just to have you go an tell some more. I'm all ears.

It's taken me 2 years to finally trust him, & he's done nothing wrong.

++++Not much right either by the sound of you.

If anything, he's had a lot of patience.

+++NOTHING like what it takes for me to put up with this least he gets to "negotiate" you sometimes...though he's welcome to it for all the good he'll get out of it. Do you fake orgasms too or are you just kind of fake all over?

The guy is awesome, the best thing that's ever happened to me in my personal life.

+++++Which only goes to show how dismal that has been. I need a are icky.

-- International Hot Foot
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