Posted by Lilly from ? (220.127.116.11) on Thursday, June 13, 2002 at 8:31AM :
In Reply to: Re: EXACTLY! posted by panch from pool0174.cvx25-bradley.dialup.earthlink.net (18.104.22.168) on Thursday, June 13, 2002 at 8:16AM :
: : I sent you those pictures, for the LAST time, because they were funny - there's NOTHING sexual about them at ALL.
: +++I never said there was. I said your ploy was obvious...just why would you send ANY pictures of yourself to a dirty old man who apparently can't get over the mesmerizingness of you?
xxx I never called you a "dirty old man." AFTER I sent you the pictures, you started acting like a "jerk" - THAT is what I'll call you. IN FACT, I had NO IDEA you were going to act so stupid or mean - from our more-or-less pleasant exchange of emails & posts BEFORE I sent those funny pictures of myself, you morphed into some sort of weirdo, trying to point out some supposed neurosis of mine, AFTER I sent you those pictures. I honestly would never have thought you'd do that to me - I thought you at least *mildly* respected me. But I was wrong. It is your blatant disrespect for me that made me stop emailing you.
xxx BUT, you know what I think? You somehow have this impression that I'm like Jackie - in fact, you've even mentioned that before in your posts. So, what you have done is project aspects of her personality onto me - & THAT is YOUR neurosis. See where you say I have a "ploy" - well, I *never* had ANY "ploy" except to make you laugh, you freak. You are the one thinking I have some sort of "ploy." NOW I realize that you think I'm like some other woman you've encountered. YOU were the one who mentioned on the board that I'd sent you pictures, & then you proceeded to make fun of me, suggest that the pictures were indecent, & then call me ugly & vain. That's one type of disrespect right there. & notice this: no one else on the board did that, even the people I sent the pictures to, as well. Just you. How the hell was I supposed to know you'd act like that?
xxx In fact, I was so concerned because you acted as if you hated & disrespected me for *NO* reason, NOT because you are a "dirty old man." YOU call YOURSELF that. You sent me raunchy come-ons as jokes - I didn't ask for these. & I take that as a form of disrespect, especially given the context - you were alternating insults with raunchy jokes.
xxx Anyway, you can continue your behavior out in the open on your own forum. It's your choice. It only makes you look worse.
xxx & of course, every once in a while I'm going to get mad at you & either be sarcastic or just as vulgar back at you - it's the only way I know to get you to stop & consider what your behavior looks like to me.
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